- Chosen by Voters Hey man I would not worry about this right now. It sounds like you are still very early in this relationship. I would say to let this play out. You might find out that this is the girl you was looking for, and you might find that the problems you are having now do not bother down the road. I say give her a chance you prob. will find something that you are better at doing then her that will help you feel better about her intelligence. 2 years ago 100% 1 Vote